How to inject a little excitement back into your love life

June 30th, 2013


If you’ve been in a relationship for awhile, sometimes it can feel like all the magic has gone out of it. Everything seems to be the same old routine over and over again. You want to switch things up, get that spark back, but you’re not sure how. Here are a few suggestions on how to inject a little excitement back into your love life.

1. Get romantic in a different location. Sometimes all it takes is changing the routine a little bit. If things generally only get spicy in the bedroom, try instigating something on the living room couch. It feels new and exciting, just like when you were first dating.

2. Get a new scent. Treat yourself to a new perfume or body spray, something a little more exotic than you usually wear. Not enough money to splurge on perfume? No problem. Pick up discount perfumes from that smell just as nice and won’t cost much.

3. Reminisce together. Take some time to remember your favorite romantic moments together. Reliving them as a couple can sometimes bring back the emotions associated with that time, which can be very romantic.

4. Flirt all day long. Building up anticipation goes a long way toward getting each other in the mood. Send each other flirty emails and voicemails, saying things like, “I can’t wait to see you tonight.” Going out with friends? Go for the cheesy secret flirting techniques, like playing footsie under the table or sending flirty texts to them when they’re sitting right next to you.


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